I have several significant reasons for still helping with negotiations.
Even though I withdrew from my position as president of the bargaining unit, the woman I was mentoring wasn't ready to take on the role...she did it anyway when I said I was quitting.
The woman who was our chief negotiator quit abruptly when her husband had some health issues, which I understand. No one else on the team has ever been at the table, so they have no understanding of how things work. I have committed to the end of this round, with a clear expectation that they better learn all they can while I'm there, because I will not continue past that.
The biggest reason is that I love working with words. I love getting the language to say what we mean and be clear and concise. I can see the solutions and am not intimidated by others at the table, so I can speak my mind. If it wasn't for the politics, which I detest, I would still be doing all of the jobs; I love it and I'm good at it. Unfortunately, if I continue, the politics will kill me.
We got through a lot today, especially considering that we are combining at least 5 documents, trying to ensure that we don't miss anything we need, but losing anything that's redundant.
I had a lovely supper with Paula after, but then came home and ate most of a bag of dried pineapple, which I got to replace the bag I finished yesterday. I guess they're going on my "can't have in the house right now" list.
Thanks to Paula for the deodorized coconut oil; all the benefits, but no nasty coconutty smell or taste! Thanks to Cory for finding my keys; could someone please find my black cardigan??
Love, elly
Okay...that was a good answer! And I always though of politics as simply people with a personal agenda. Those agendas usually remain hidden, or at least unspoken, and sure enough that makes negotiation difficult. You can do it!!
ReplyDeleteOn another note I'm now starting to get worried that the repetition about Cory finding your keys is not on purpose??? I'm pretty sure that's the fourth time you mentioned it. Please tell me you knew that??
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Peter
Oh, and I threw your black cardigan in the trash. Don't even bother to look for it!
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Peter
Politics makes everything unbearable. Your strength shines when you rise above the mess and keep the negotiations focused he issues. Keep on keeping on! (I think Peter said that once, didn't he?)
ReplyDeleteLove, gail