courage

Every time I spend time with family and there is someone who is not family, I am so impressed with how the human psyche survives such a bunch as we are; idiots all. I have seen these brave souls adjust to us eating off their plates, knowing everything, arguing even when we don't know anything, foul language (admittedly me!), being loud beyond words, and any other number of irritating habits. As some of these courageous ones choose to join us, I have seen any number of coping strategies develop for survival. I must say that I am grateful for each and every one of them!

 As most of you will know, I have spent most of the summer in some chaos as I transformed my basement into my down house. I have had help from so many of my siblings, nieces and nephews, and occasionally one of these "not quite" or "not yet" family. This past weekend was one such occasion and I don't think I have seen anyone take up the challenge any more bravely than Darren, aka Mitch. He not only pitched right in wherever requested, but he did so with seemingly calm and quiet confidence and good natured humour. I don't know if this stemmed from Sammie's own sense of adventure, willingness to learn and to jump right in while doing so, or if they inspire each other. Regardless, I thoroughly enjoyed both of them and admire the people they are choosing to become. Thanks!

I cleaned today, not to be confused with actually having the place clean. I'm quite sure it will be some time before sawdust and stone dust are no longer a routine part of the daily fare. However, unlike my idiot brother, I know that labour day is for resting and celebration, so I made sure I did some of that too.

Tomorrow I return to my more conventional work, with the significant difference of the union work I have done for so many years now. I am looking forward to a job I love without the daily conflict and frustration of that added to it. Stupid people who are still learning are so much more enjoyable than those who have decided to stay that way! Wish me luck!!

Love, elly